17 Sept 2025

WORDLESS WEDNESDAY






 


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Autumn is slowly approaching, and while out for a walk, I saw these strange mushrooms. I used to look for mushrooms with my grandfather, and in the evenings, my grandmother would prepare them. They tasted absolutely delicious. 

Unfortunately, I've never seen again the mushrooms my grandfather found. I would not just look at them myself I don't know much about mushrooms, so I'd rather buy them. The last picture has nothing to do with mushrooms, but at least there are autumn leaves around it.


 

15 Sept 2025

AWWWW MONDAY - WEEKEND SEPTEMBER SEPTEMBER 13





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 now 19 year old Rosie

 

 

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WEEKEND

Unfortunately  we had a lousy weather over the weekend ! There was everything on the menu, rain, wind, cold, dark clouds, white clouds, sunshine, thunder etc result, we had to stay inside

Luckily, we enjoyed a fun game and then had a good laugh over coffee time. My friend J had informed me that a new pair of lovers had been formed : my neighbor, who lives next door to me with her husband, has fallen in love with a "young man" of 98, whom we call Mr. Wikipedia because he wants to share his knowledge with everyone, even if it doesn't interest us. He used to be a physics, chemistry, and math teacher, all subjects I hate.

Anyway, my neighbor listened to him with wide eyes, and we noticed that she was wearing makeup for the first time!  J. also reported me that they were 3 sitting at the same table at lunch time, she, her husband and the new love. The husband was annoyed and ranted; the couple, both hard of hearing, sipped their soup and smiled lovingly at each other.

My friend and the others had a great time. The husband quickly disappeared after the meal, while she followed her new love in her wheelchair.

I saw them in the afternoon he showed her something on his tablet which he only can use for showing photos. Suddenly the husband showed up after an hour and looked for his wife and then they argued again, the husband gave up and returned in his room. I hope he will not try to come into mine, which had happened once when he suddenly showed up and declared that he wants to stay with me, because his wife is naughty. I pushed him out of my room and told him that he is in the wrong room. Then I closed my door. This couple is here already a long time, nobody likes them and they are very rude with the staff. 

Sunday it was even colder and we played several games, my group played cards.  Those who weren't in the mood played another game, and those who were quite brain-damaged built towers with wooden blocks. It was a good idea, to play different games and everyone was happy. Our Nightingale wanted to sing again, but we were able to stop her.

Afterwards, I thought that I was meeting so many interesting people and I am never getting bored. One of the people who played cards with us was a cemetery administrator and could tell us incredible anecdotes


13 Sept 2025

FRIDAY's FAVE FIVE

We started the week with a nice game which is called "Who will be a millionaire" Unfortunately it wasn't me, it was Jeannie, who is 100 years old. I wonder if she still has time to spend it all, otherwise her heirs will be very happy ! 

The new ones have settled in well and aren't so shy anymore. Old Mimmi, who thinks she's a nightingale, now sings all day long. It's worst when we play and have to think during other games. Yesterday, I lost my temper and told her I would put a plaster on her mouth if she didn't stop singing when we play. The others threatened her too, and today when she had sung two notes, we all gave her an angry look, and she stopped. Hopefully, it stays that way. The poor girl who shares a room with her is at her wit's end, but doesn't dare complain ! 

Otherwise, Mimmi is friendly and cheerful ! I will have to put that on my list for the next meeting with the management. 

It becomes urgent to put back on the 4th floor these poor people. The renovation is not yet finished so some of them are with us during the day.  They are like vegetables, and it's not good for us to see what could happen when we get older. Better putting the head in sand. 

My friend Jacqueline called me and asked if we could eat mussels together. She picked me up, and we had a lovely afternoon. 

The next day a resident came back, she had fallen. She sometimes has balance problems and falls. This time, she fell on the left side of her face and had a beautiful black eye and purple cheeks. We suggested she performs in a circus.  

One of the new girls seems to have an age complex. She dresses like she's 20, which obviously makes her look older and doesn't suit her at all. I mean mini skirts at nearly 80 ! She told us right away that she has a boyfriend. Instead of being envied, she was teased. The other women were all widows like her, but had absolutely no desire to replace their husbands with boyfriends 

In general, I'm amazed that those who are normally separated from us because they are severely brain-damaged are always looking for a man or woman. Then they hold hands and cling to each other, and have jealous scenes. So, it's not boring here, and we "normal" people have fun. 

The ones with dementia disease can get really angry and aggressive if you try to separate them. One nurse got a glass of wine in her face when she tried to put a "couple" at different tables. 

No wonder that from time to time the staff needs a cigarette !


The sneakers which I had worn 3 or 4 times were suddenly too small and my feet hurt. 


So I decided to go shopping with Jeanine, and then we went to a shoe store she didn't know, but I had been buying my shoes there for years. I found a nice pair which I liked and she bought a pair of slippers as inside shoes. 

Rosie worries me a bit, because for the moment she doesn't eat well, but she still looks good for her 19 years !
 


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